Five things to know before going on a first date with someone

     
       

After deciding to go on a first date with someone you barely know, there will be lots of questions in your head and if you really like that person, you might also be nervous. But not to worry although not everything goes as planned but its good to have a plan so as to know what to do.


Below are five things to take note before going on a date with someone

1.         1       Know your date: just in case you guys haven’t known each other for a while before agreeing to go on a date, you should try to know the kind of person you’re planning a hangout with. It may be difficult to know people through their photos and texts but do try like asking them questions. Their dislikes and their likes. You wouldn’t want to take someone on a date to where they consider boring or not fancy.

2.         2          Try: one thing is to fix dates the other thing is to show up. Try to show up on a date you have fixed. What would have been the essence of fixing the date if you know you will not show up. And in showing up, try to look nice. This does not necessarily mean wearing expensive cloths when you know you can’t afford them. Just practice good hygiene ………… combing your hair, wearing a cologne and also, wear clothes that compliments your features. Depending on wherever you guys are going to, wear appropriate cloths. And as a guy, also try to make her feel special.

1.         3        Put your phone away: first and foremost, it is actually not very appropriate to look at your cell phone when talking to someone. You guys are there to know each other and if you preparing chatting your bestie or your social media followers, then you shouldn’t have come out on a date in the first place.

2.        4          Do not get drunk: this should wait until maybe your tenth or eleventh date. Besides its not a good idea for you to show someone your unconscious self when you’re not even sure if they like your conscious self.  Pull yourself together and be good mannered.

3.         5           Do not get any hopes: well, now you’re talking to each other, you get your hopes high easily but don’t forget this is actually a first date. Its actually over to hope and believe but know your limits when it turns out the other person might not like you as much as you like them.

I do hope these tips help.


And also, below are few things you should make sure and also avoid.

v       Make sure you guys are meeting at an open place. Maybe a mall or a restaurant where there’re people around

v  Avoid topics like saying things about the government or the country. you’re there to know each other not the government.

v  Do not talk about or have sex on the first date. It might be dangerous both physically and emotionally

v  Do not expect highly from the other person. And also, just be your reasonable self.

I do hope these tips helps and pls don’t forget to give me feedback or ask me any questions on the comment 
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